1. Waits till late for her husband to come home. Will serve him first and then eat last Vs Will wait to come home and be served by his wife after all the hard day’s work.

2.   Will treat her husband like Pati Parmeshwar Vs Will treat himself as Parmeshwar and most high

3.   Will forgive her husband even if he abuses or illtreats her and will hope that one day he’ll improve Vs  Will keep repeating the same mistakes again & convince his wife to forgive him

4.   Will sacrifice her dreams for her husband Vs Will make sure wife respects his decisions, afterall she married him and she has to be a traditional homemaker

5.   The word “NO” doesn’t exist in her dictionary Vs The word “NO” is the only word in his dictionary

6.   Will do household chores, take care of kids and yet will not be given credit for all her hardwork Vs Will argue that his work is more stressful and hence gets all the credit

7.   Will treat her husband like a 3 yr old kid and always claim he is innocent Vs Will act like a 3 yr old kid and pretend he is innocent

8.   Will find ways to get his attention and appreciation Vs Care’s a damn about what’s happening around or rather too buzy to notice

9.   Will supress herself & never express her feelings Vs Will supress himself but will boast about the stress he is going through

10. Will often think what her husband must be doing at work Vs Enjoys himself at work and rarely thinks about his lonely wife

11. Will early wait for weekends so that her husband takes her for a date (grocery shopping it is) Vs Will try and spend time with his wife but always ends up with atleast one argument

12. Will sob and sob, wash her face and pretend nothing happened and everything is allright. Vs Stoneface

13. Will often blame herself for mistakes she’s not done Vs Will blame his wife for things she’s not done.

14. Will watch Tv for hours cause that’s the only way to pass time Vs Will nag her for watching Tv whole day

1)  An ice breaker –

►Whats your name

→ Cassiopeia

► (Confused face) Pardon? How do you spell it?

→C-a-ss-i-o-p-e-i-a it’s Cassiopeia

►Oh, interesting. May I ask what does it mean?

→ Cassiopeia is the name of a mythological mother who became a stellar constellation. Actually my parents wished for me when they saw a shooting star. And they liked the sound of Cassiopeia. So they named me Cassiopeia.

►Oh wow. That’s nice. Very interesting. Nice name. I like it

→ *blushes* Thanks.

(Same story repeats whenever asked for your name)

2)  Congrats! You are unique!- Sometimes its good to be one of a kind. You are special. You are unique.

3)  Get away with situations- Common admit it! Your name is not easy to grasp. People may find it really hard to recollect your name if you meet them just once. Sometimes it’s easier to get away with a situation.

4)  Easier to get your desired username- Sometimes it gets irritating to find the username your looking out for. It’s all taken. With your one of a kind name, there is a great chance you can avoid funny/ complicated usernames.

5)  Your name is often misspelled or mispronounced- Yes, it does get on ones nerves when your name is not called out the way it is. Over the years you get used to it.

6)  Explaining your name again and again- One thing you cannot avoid that is having to explain the meaning of your name. Probably you can wear a board around your neck or carry a voice record explaining your name.

7)  Easily forgotten- Out of sight is out of mind. Having an odd name may not work in your favour every single time. The harsh truth: Yes, your name can be easily forgotten. But, yeah, incase you’re sad refer to point 3 again.

8)  Feel like a celebrity- You heard right! Top celebrities and several famous personalities have unique names. Don’t believe me? Google it!

An extra mile he walked on the isolated beach. Melancholy footsteps into the sand that left deep impressions behind. It was the same way he felt all this while back. The more he began to think, deeper and deeper the scars lay behind. Reflecting on his life, the mistakes he made, the hurt and pain he's been through.  Downhearted, he pulled himself to move ahead, pushing away the gripping negativity.

Splashing waves on his feet, washed out his footprint on the very ground he stood. Turning behind he realized the very essence of his existence was washed out as he walked all this while. The assumption that he left a trail of footprints existed only for that moment. Without his notice the waves had already filled out his footprints with sand. The moment was serene. It was just him, gazing at the contrary sides. It was Life that gave him options. A crucial flip-side to walk back or move ahead with a new beginning.

Little birds. Little birds. Flying high In the sky. Their Freedom is what we long for. Walk around, spread your wings and fly. Fly away from problems, fly away from 

 sorrows. Fly like there's no tomorrow. Days will pass and years. Little we notice the troubles they go through. Battling for a consistent place to live, on a daily hunt for meals to live. A quest of survival agaist the ferocious claws of the eagle. Find a secret shelter when injured or else will be pecked to death. With months of trouble to protect their babies and watch some of them die. In the end, they all wither and have a deadly end. End of life. End of story. 

Perhaps, if we find a way to be free. Life's hardest truth is that we will never really have the so called "freedom". Responsibilities and rules will always be thrust down upon. Our wish. Find a way. Find freedom.