Some things really never change. Some things do. And  somethings change when you hardly expect it. Relationships are no exception. One time you are friends and the next...bang! Its all over. What took the turn? What was the root cause. So many questions unanswered.

The truth often hurts especially when you try your best to set things right, when you notice the initial changes. If its not worth,  let it go. And if they are happier that way, you are no one to control. Its their life, their decision. And its your life to choose who is worth keeping.

" Its when you let things go, you make space for better things to come "

Love is pure, Love is divine

It'll wipe away your tears and bring on a smile

Love is eternal and will last forever

 If your Love is true, it'll never die.

Love makes no demands & will never blame

It puts you into trials and tests

Often confused by this four letter word

Fight if its worth or Simply Love so much till you're Loved.

Love sets no limits and is not just for someone

For Love also feels for Family, Friends, dreams & possessions

Love is never selfish, will always care

You will magically receive, the more Love you share.

Love has no terms and conditions applied

Nor it'll  keep any unrealistic expectation

If its not the Love above that you feel

The Love you mistook is just an obsession.

For Love is pure, Love is divine........

 

Life's best moments are created when they are unplanned. In all the rush that we make to get life perfect, sometimes we just need to leave it on its own. Let life decide whats best for you. If one day goes cranky the other is the total opposite. Its just two sides of the same coin called life. You have to find it's worth yourself. what you do and how you create it depends on your experiences. It's like a knock on the door which will appear only when you agree to open the door and let it in. 

               On a warm sunny morning, took out the bike and set out on a long ride. Like crazing- zooming on the smooth- long stretch of road. In and out of lanes. Dodging traffic and the ones crossing the street. You land in a place where there's no one but just you. Just you, the plain road, brownish green grass on both sides, dried by the sun, open deep blue sky's with clouds moving all around. The warm sepia feeling as the rays of the Sun touch your skin. You can feel the heat burning your skin and the wind blowing against your direction, cooling it down evenly. The feeling is divine. All your worries, all your sorrows, all your pain. Everything disappears into the wilderness around you and even moving at the speed of 70-75 you feel the clock has stopped. You feel still, you feel motionless as everything around you is moving. Its like being in a trance after you pass through a blow of smoke from the dried twigs on the side of the road. In a world that doesn't seem like your own, but feels more like a dream.

" Search everywhere to find Yourself and suddenly In the middle of nowhere You will find Yourself "

It was the day of Sabbath and time for Sunday mass. I reached Church and quietly sat on a bench. The Priest began the mass and everyone joined in the praises. As soon as the mass started, I noticed a lady giving her child a packet of chips. The lady completely distracted and distracting others just couldn't manage her child when he was bored after he finished the chips. So, she tells him to go and play with the other kids playing around running and jumping from one grave to the other. This refers not only to that particular lady but many times we see situations like this. Lets talk about 20 years back... This never happened! Then whats happening around us Now. When we come to church why dont they teach their kids to pray and sit quietly? With parents reasoning out for their kids saying that the mass is boring, so they give them to eat to pass time and other such lame excuses that practically don't make sense. Is coming to Gods home a picninc? Can't we give God our complete attention for just 1 hour-once a week. Is that asking for too much? You wont be surprised to see these same kids sitting quietly in one place watching TV or playing games on the mobile for hours together. How do they know how to stay quite and sit in school for long hours? Is it their fault or the fault of the parents who are responsible to teach their kids discipline and show some respect while they attend mass. Its high time they do something or as they teach their kids- their kids will teach their kids and the trend will continue. So to all the parents out there.......
PS: It's a Prayer House Not A Play House!!!!!

Work- Home- Work... Life feels pretty much the same (except for weekends), Yet, feels like it passes away in a blink and bang! A month has just passed, soon a year and then years. Everything can't be so constant or else we'l be brain-dead. Music, Movies, Books, My phone- companions while travelling. Family, friends and collegues- companions for life. Life seems to be moving pretty fast and its very importnat to stop for a while to notice the little moments in life. Apart from your buzy schedule, its necessary to take a break and do the things you love. Make a change, change your day, change your life. Are we so buzy to notice the birds flying across the bright blue sky covered with cottony clouds. The little child smiling at you, hoping to get a smile back in return. Your mother waiting for you to share stories and get into a conversation. Lost lost relatives who hope you'd call them someday. The dusty guitar lying in the corner of the room...

Life is made up of simple things. So try not to complicate. Make the most of it for the moments spent today will be just a memory of tomorrow. Pay attention to little things or you'd never know when those Seconds will become Minutes and Hours to Days to Weeks to Months to Years...

Girl gets stalked, eve-teased and raped. She's raped by her father, by a gang who rapes her in a bus in the presence of her friend, she's raped by a man her grandfathers age. Stay indoors- danger! Go out- danger!
What does she do? Trapped in a box full of inhuman beings. Trapped by society. Trapped by rules. Trapped by mentalities. At a age when she's supposed to be playing with other kids, she bares her own kid in her womb. What is happening to the world??? Who is responsible? is it the accused or the taken for granted laws. Is it her clothes that provoke then what about those who wearing clothes that cover their body being raped. What about the innocent 5 yr old ? What about babies? What provoked then? who is responsible. Each day the crimes increase. In a modern world why there cant be a change in modern ways to control this issue. In a world full of strategies, where things are under control, why cant such issues be controled. What are we lacking? Why cant laws be more strict so as to scar the accused for life and give him the punishment he deserves. Something needs to change. The world needs a change.

SAY SOMETHING YOU’VE BEEN MEANING TO SAY

1. Tell someone how you really feel about them instead of waiting because you’re scared.

2. Tell someone what you really want and need instead of building up resentment.

3. Share your fears publicly, in a blog post for example, and ask the community to keep you accountable in overcoming them.

4. Tell a friend your greatest dream, and then ask them to hold you accountable in pursuing it.

5. Admit to a friend how you really feel about how you spend your time—then brainstorm about ways to improve it.

6. Introduce yourself to someone you’ve been dying to meet, even if you feel nervous.

7. Ask someone who’s done what you want to do for advice and encouragement.

8. Tell your boss what you can do instead of wondering if you’ll ever move forward professionally.

9.  Or tell your boss his services are no longer needed—then finally start pursuing your passion.

10. Tell yourself the truth instead of lying to yourself about the changes you want to make in your life.

TRY SOMETHING YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO TRY 

11. Sign up for a class to learn a skill you’ve always thought would be fun.

12. If you can’t afford a class, look on Craigslist for free events related to that interest.

13. Ask a friend to teach you to do something you don’t know how to do—and offer to teach them something else in return.

14. Take that new class at your gym instead of worrying that you won’t be able to keep up.

15. Buy a new or used instrument and look on for instructional videos on YouTube.

16. Think of something you’d enjoy creating—a blanket, a song, or a small piece of furniture—and then do some research today to take the first step in doing it.

17. Write a blog post or take some photos and submit them to your favorite website.

18. Invite a few of your friends to play a sport you’ve always wanted to try, even if you fear you’ll seem uncoordinated.

19. Blast your favorite song and try a dance style you’ve always admired. Nothing makes you feel alive like getting your blood pumping!

20. Make a list of things you think you’d enjoy, and then pick one you’ve never done to try this weekend.

GO SOMEWHERE YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO GO

 

21. Plan a vacation to that destination you’ve always dreamed about visiting.

22. If you can’t afford that, research cheap ways to travel—staying in hostels, volunteering abroad, or transporting someone else’s car, for example.

23. Issue yourself a “life ticket.” According to Tiny Buddha contributor Jamie Hoang, we find ways to pay tickets when we get them because we have to. Think of travel in that same way—and be resourceful to make it happen.

24. Take a weekend road trip to somewhere close you’ve always wanted to visit.

25. Write down your three favorite hobbies and for each, a place you’ve always wanted to try (i.e.: a beautiful beach an hour away for surfing). Plan to go this weekend.

26. Invite friends to a restaurant, bar, or other establishment you’ve wanted to try, but have avoided in favor or familiarity. (Once you invite other people, you’ll be less inclined to change your mind last-minute!)

27. If you’ve avoided going to a new spot because it’s expensive, start a “fun night” savings jar today, and make trying that place a priority.

28. Make a list of fun “staycation” ideas (for daytrips in your area). Schedule at least two of them for the next month.

29. If there’s a conference you’ve always wanted to attend, book your ticket for next year, or see if you can volunteer there to get free or discounted attendance.

30. Plan some type of creativity-driven travel project—once a week or even month, take photos, draw, or write in a new spot you’ve wanted to visit

DO SOMETHING YOU THOUGHT YOU COULDN’T DO

31. Jot down three qualities you’d like to possess, then three choices or activities that coincide with them (i.e.: adventurous—white water rafting). Make a plan to do that thing.

32. Enlist a friend to help you face it fear, whether it’s quitting your job or skydiving.

33. Create a positive affirmation to replace a limiting belief (i.e.: tell yourself, “I feel confident around new people” instead of “I can’t meet new people—I’m too nervous”). Then use that new belief to push yourself out of your comfort zone.

34. Think of someone you admire and write down three things they do that you don’t think you can. Now make it a personal mission to prove yourself wrong.

35. Think of something huge you’ve wanted to do, but feared you can’t. Now shrink it down to something smaller but related (i.e.: climb Mt. Everest could start with join a rock climbing gym.) Do that smaller thing today. It’s a start!

36. Ask a friend to describe your potential. Find the parts that make your heart race with excitement, and then take one small step today to work toward that possibility.

37. Set a 30-day challenge—i.e. write 5 pages every day without worrying if they’re any good; after 30 days, you’ll have a first draft of a 150-page novel.

38. Ask yourself, “What would I try if I thought I wouldn’t fail?” Take one tiny steptoward that goal today.

39. Ask a friend or your significant other to design an “opposite night” for you—a night when the two of you do things completely opposed to what you usually do.

40. Share something you want to do but think you can’t in the comment section here. Just putting it out there is a great start!

This is obviously a large list—and there’s far too much to do all at once. But maybe you can pick just one thing that resonated with you, or pick one thing every week or month.

The point is to do something to feel passionate, excited, and exhilarated.

We all have different interests that inform what we want to do; and we all have different responsibilities that might limit how we’re able to do them. But we all have the ability to make at least one tiny change, or take at least one tiny risk.

Today I’m going to spend several hours doing something I haven’t done in 10 years with people I’ve never met. I feel terrified, but oh so thrilled and alive.

-By Lori Deschene